munna2009 (Super-Mod! + Sravanthi Love): You can respond to messages in your own time and study his personality at a distance before meeting in person. *04-01-13 - 10:53:38
munna2009 (Super-Mod! + Sravanthi Love): At that point, youll have talked with each other a little, and will know a lot about each others interests, so youll feel far more prepared than if you were on a regular date with a stranger chosen for you by a colleague. *04-01-13 - 10:53:51
munna2009 (Super-Mod! + Sravanthi Love): Conducting small talk over coffee can be pretty stressful when you know next to nothing about someone, so do something fun that either requires more running around than talking (e.g. go kart racing and bowling), 0r that will inspire conversation topics. *04-01-13 - 10:54:16
munna2009 (Super-Mod! + Sravanthi Love): For instance, a visit to a modern art museum 0r a farmers market will give you plenty of things to comment on when the dialogue slows down. *04-01-13 - 10:54:29